Experiencing a true fall for the first time is amazing. Being surrounded by auburn oranges, deep golden yellows and oranges definitely have their perks…especially when going to a fall festival, which we did today. Our amazing neighbors, Erica and Andy invited us to go along with their family and we had a GREAT time!! The weather was picture perfect, as you can see below! Hope wherever you are you’re getting a little taste, however small, of fall…the best season of them all!!

I’m a little late in this whole reading thing…writing has never been a problem for me, somehow..but reading…ehh, not so much. Until recently (like last five years-ish) I’d NEVER completed a novel. EVER. Children’s books are different, obviously shorter…better stated sometimes…and the pictures always helped too. Couldn’t ever focus or stay awake long enough to read an entire book.

Until….something miraculous happened, it’s as though God pressed a button and magically, I liked to read. In a Disney book it would go something like this:

Once upon a time there was a little princess who loved reading books, and looking at the beautiful pictures. As the princess grew older she decided she didn’t want to read books anymore and so she read only as much as she needed to take her tests at princess academy. But one day she was given a big, long novel by her loving fairy God-Mother and told to just try..The fairy God-Mother must have sprinkled her magic dust on the book because the princess couldn’t put it down. She loved to read again! And so she read all kinds of books and told her fairy God-mother all the wonderful stories she’d heard. And they both lived happily ever after. The End. (roll credits)

Yeah, something like that..

My newest book addition was recommended by my sister Mary, she told me about The Help back before the movie was being previewed. She had just read it with her book club and knew I would love it. And I did. Then I found out about the movie. There couldn’t be a better motivator for me to complete a book that if there’s a new movie about it. I will admit there were a handful of times in high school that I would start reading a book, get the idea and then just rent the movie to gain the knowledge in order to take a test/quiz. Admitted. BUT, now that I actually like reading, I was really thrilled especially given this particular book to see the movie.

What are your own thoughts on The Help? Did you catch things that were unexplained and/or different in the movie vs. the book? Anything you were surprised by?

Looking at the whole picture, I have to admit, the subject matter in the book/movie was hard to read and watch for a lot of reasons. Not only is that our own American History…but the kind of lively hood that people put up with is astounding to me. The way men and women of color were able to function under those circumstances is by God’s grace alone. In closer detail, the love shown (especially to children) despite the treatment of some of the people these men and women worked for is such a beautiful testimony.

Did you find it strange that in the book Mrs. Phelan was portrayed as dying and in the movie she didn’t seem all that bad?? That bother anyone else? What about the background on Rachel? I feel like that was kind of major and had I not read the book the gravity of she and Constantine being thrown out wouldn’t have made as big an impact. The dinner with Stuart’s parents was left out, along with some of the details of Minny’s work at The Foote’s.

Overall, I would give the screen-writer and A, seeing as there was SO much material to get into a manageable time frame for the movie. I thought the characters all did a fantastic job being who the book depicted them as. Especially Minny. Lord have mercy, was she perfect! Great book, great movie.

Charlie and Nonny...aka Mommy

“Nonny!!!!!!” Is the first thing I hear in the morning..not “mama” or “mommy”….nonny. It’s quite precious, honestly. Charlie’s still developing his words, you know since he’s technically still a baby, I’ll give him an out. In addition, he’s also learning who is who still. It’s funny because from day one he’s had Tess down. From the beginning of his speaking abilities, “woof, woof!” has been Tess, no deviation at all. But Daddy and Mommy are still up for debate. Most days lately, I’m Nonny and Freddie’s Daddy. But there are a lot of days that’s not true. Nonny is non-existent, went on vacation or something and left me here as Daddy…as well as Freddie. I’m guessing this whole identity crisis will work itself out in due time, but for now I suppose you can add Nonny to the list of names you can call me.

So, it’s been awhile…more like forever since I’ve updated our blog. And the truth is although I was a little pressed for time with having a little guy, and moving across the country and back…I was really just lacking inspiration..so, having read most everyone else’s blog that I have, and taken what I’ll call a long-term hiatus, I’m back.

If you know us, you know our crazy year and a half so I’ll move on from where we are now. Charlie’s 19 months old (yesterday!) and constantly on the move. We have him in a mother’s day out program at our church, Cokesbury two days a week which has proven to be the two days I look forward to most. Errr, uh except the days Freddie’s off…anyway, I’ve learned what I can and cannot get done in those very quick hours alone. I’ve yet to get a pedicure or anything fun like that, most of the time I just go to the grocery store and clean my house. My compartmentalized mind is set that I need to fill every second with something productive and when I’m by myself, I guess food and cleaning are at the top of my list?!?! I guess deep down, I was meant to be the domesticated housewife I am. I love the quiet of the house (and snoring of the dog) when I’m here by myself. But I find myself missing Charlie following me from room to room, and wonder what he’s doing at “school”..and I cannot wait to go get him and read the little slip of paper highlighting what he did that day.

And then I look so forward again to the next school day, but really knowing I’m just going to think about Charlie the whole time. What is that messed up cycle of thinking? Am I always going to think that way? It’s kind of driving me nuts.

Here’s a few pictures of Charlie’s first day of school!

We’ve been traveling and/or having travelers here the last three weeks…and now that we’re back, here’s what we’ve got in pictures.

Today’s 8 faves of the day (and week due to being out of town) are dedicated to desires and abilities. You know when you have the desire to do something but no ability? For instance the desire to kick a goal into the net for the USA team so they finally get something on the board, but no ability to because   a. I’m in Miami and b. I don’t play soccer…at all.

However, you could most certainly reverse the analogy…and say I have the ability but no desire to do something. LIKE……I have the Ability to clean my whole house in one day, but really zero desire. You see what I’m saying by now I’m sure. Right. ???

So, here’s to both desire and ability working harmoniously together in the last few days…..and the challenge of them ever working together again.

1. desire to sleep in, and ability to because Charlie went back to sleep after this morning’s 530 feeding. 🙂

2. ability to mop my downstairs floor after a week and a half of ignoring the need, and the desire to get it over with.

3. desire to go for a quick run (which I think should count twice since it was 1pm) and the ability to accomplish that task…with a dog and a baby in tow.

4. the desire to get a pedicure over the weekend minus my darling son, and the ability to do so because of my wonderful husband.

5. desire to make my husband’s first Father’s Day extra special by getting him a tee time at Doral’s Blue Monster course, and the ability to do so thanks to God’s faithfulness in the finance department.

6. ability to watch the entire US/Algeria World cup match in the middle of the morning via DVR, pausing and fast forwarding and desire to do so.

7. desire to have a clean…er dog, ability to tell the twin junior high boys that stayed with us for a couple nights to do that task or no dinner. JK!

AND finally………

8. desire to do a little sitting around, mindless facebooking/scrapbooking/reading/whatever I can squeeze out of 40 minutes while Charlie sleeps and the ability to do so because Charlie is sleeping.

Here’s to your desires and abilities coming together today.

Much love,

Andrea

Although I could probably come up with 8 faves for just today, I must include a few things that happened earlier this week too…consider this an extended version..

Monday, 5.17.10

Being told I was “too skinny” by the instructor of our infant massage class (who also happens to be our birthing class instructor) and that I needed to eat more. Mmm-WAH to you!

Polishing off a dozen Oatmeal Chocolate Chip cookies (with Freddie’s help) in 2 days..

Tuesday, 5.18.10

Walking into Babies R Us’s bathroom and immediatley realizing why I’d gotten such a strange look from a lady in line…the middle button of my button- down shirt had popped open. had no clue. just gave an extra wide smile and went on to the bathroom..

Buying Charlie his first pair of sandals. ADORABLE.

Talking to my mom in the middle of the day. I love talking to her..Plus, inevidably she orders something from somewhere while on the phone.

Watching Charlie watch Freddie, in awe of his expressions…

Breakfast for dinner. MMMM!

writing out a packing list for this weekend on our first trip with Charlie…his list is the longest.

I feel like if I have something specific to look for during the day, I’ll be more likely to write a blog about it. For instance, if there was a specific question I could answer everyday, I would probably do better at this whole keeping you informed in more than just FB’s “what’s on your mind” status updates..especially since I know we have SUCH a great audience. On the edge of your seats, I’m sure. We ARE that exciting. Needless to say (because I know you already read the title), I’ve decided that I will weekly come up with my 8 faves of that day. 

8 because it rhymes with faves, and weekly because I know my life…and setting standards too high would only stress me out.

 I think I’m thinking this over too much. Naw.

Tuesday, May 11.2010 (in no particular order)

– reading the clock this morning when Charlie woke up…which said ****8:20*****

– having a sweet lady open the door for me at Michael’s, noticing I was toting a rather heavy carseat. Gestures like these remind me this city isn’t FULL of heartless people.

– listening to Freddie play his guitar

– eating a Pop-Tart for breakfast..or 2.

– the exact moment when all the laundry was not only clean, but folded AND put away.

– rocking Charlie to sleep while he reached his left arm out of the blanket repeatedly stroking his snuggy. priceless.

– rushing to get everything into the car and off to our first infant massage class and realizing the dog had eaten my sandwich. grr. (okay, that was a little saracastic)

– watching Charlie’s grins get bigger and bigger with every “who’s a good boy?” while at the dinner table.

It was indeed a good day, and I am thankful for it.

Andrea

So, I’ve got a whole hour and a half before I’m on duty (aka food-source for Charlie)…so since I absolutley suck at keeping this up, here’s a quick catch up…

Six weeks ago today, Frederick Charles Gibson, IV affectionetley known as Charlie was born. There really aren’t words to describe the jubilant and overwhelming feelings when you see your first baby for the first time. The following weeks were filled with wonderful family, food and sleep-deprived nights. It’s funny how I just now feel like I know a little about him… and he’s changing so much everyday that I learn something new all the time. There aren’t enough positive adjectives to thank not only our families and friends for the unwaivering support, but also to my dear husband who has been exactly what I needed through this whole process. On the birth announcement we put 2 Cor. 9:15 : “Thanks be to God for this indescribable gift”. That just about sums it up!

Andrea

The Holiday season  is here, and it’s amazing to look back at our past year and look forward to what’s coming next! We’ve had some pretty significant milestones, mixed in with some major blessings and some not so major blessings. All that to say, we’re super excited about 2010..not only for this little boy gracing us with his presence, but to live the coming adventure that is our lives… trusting that the God who has brought us this far will see us through in His plans for us.

We’ve been praying for an answer to what to do with living here and more importantly Freddie’s job. We’ve had some amazing conversations over the last few months centered around our priorities, desires and what we feel God is doing in the midst of this life in Miami. Up until a week ago, we were still anxious and sort of in a holding pattern, waiting for God to reply with something other than wait..and now He’s done just that! Last week, Freddie was taken aside after a meeting with the HR director of the southeast region (in town from headquarters) praising him for his efforts on this current assignment and giving us some hope that our time here in Miami may be coming to a close sooner than even we’d hoped! So, all this to say…we’re still praying, asking for clarity and that everything will align in God’s timing yet again in order for this to work. The location of said job is not official…neither is the opportunity..but there is the HOPE of it all coming together. Whatever happens, we know our God is faithful and will trust His plan.

The thought of moving brings back leaving Madison about this time last year, and how oblivious we were to how wonderful we had it…as far as community goes. This is one of my biggest fears in moving, but to see how much our marriage has grown in our time here makes it every bit worth the gigantic change. Besides, we may not have time to make friends with little Charlie coming soon!

We hope you have a very Merry Christmas and that your 2010 is blessed beyond measure.

Much love,

Andrea, Freddie, Charlie & Tess Gibson

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